{"id":476,"date":"2015-01-20T06:41:00","date_gmt":"2015-01-20T06:41:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.rochellesroost.com\/index.php\/2015\/01\/20\/today-was-all-about-therapy-retail-therapy\/"},"modified":"2026-10-08T04:59:32","modified_gmt":"2026-10-08T04:59:32","slug":"today-was-all-about-therapy-retail-therapy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.rochellesroost.com\/index.php\/2015\/01\/20\/today-was-all-about-therapy-retail-therapy\/","title":{"rendered":"Today was All About Therapy&#8211;Retail Therapy!!!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\nMonday, January 19, 2015<br \/>\nLondon<\/p>\n<p>\nJetlag still has control<br \/>\nover my life; but when it paid a 3. 15 am Wake-Up Call, it was decidedly<br \/>\n better than the previous night&#8217;s&#8211;2. 15 am. I used time creatively once<br \/>\n again to update my blog and scour the Web for suggestions on What To<br \/>\nDo. My trusted guides for <em>Secret London<\/em> and <em>Key to London&#8217;s Secrets<\/em><br \/>\n were insistent about a visit to the West side of Highgate Cemetery and<br \/>\nhaving Been There but Done Only The East Side, a few years ago, I was<br \/>\nhappy to comply. Accordingly, I went online, scored a ticket for the<br \/>\nguided tour beginning at 1. 45 today and given by Friends of Highgate<br \/>\nCemetery (as the West side, supposedly the far more interesting one) is<br \/>\nonly open to visitors on guided tours.<\/p>\n<p>\nThen, my young friend<br \/>\nJonas, all of seven years, made a 6.00 am appearance in my room, climbed<br \/>\n into my bed and promptly suggested we watch cartoons on the giant Apple<br \/>\n TV in my room. And thus it was that I became introduced to Scooby-Doo<br \/>\nand his friends! All fun cam to an end when his mother walked into our<br \/>\nroom and shook her head at him disapprovingly. I am afraid I might not<br \/>\nbe asked to stay again if I deprive her son of his beauty sleep.<br \/>\nUh-Oh!!!<\/p>\n<p>\nSo while he showered and breakfasted, I jumped into the<br \/>\nshower myself and at 8. a00, we were out the door, escorting him along<br \/>\nAbbey Road to the American School London where he is in second grade. As<br \/>\n he ran along, I took the bus to Finchley Road to the giant Waitrose<br \/>\nthere to buy my favorite year&#8217;s-worth of favorite groceries (did you<br \/>\nknow Waitrose Darjeeling teabags&#8211;not available in the USA where they<br \/>\nhave never heard of Darjeeling&#8211;and it is doubtful they have heard of<br \/>\ntea&#8211;are much cheaper than Twinnings&#8217;s Darjeeling and just as good?). I<br \/>\nbought myself an almond croissant and sipped a latte as I roamed through<br \/>\n the aisles (please Waitrose, if you can be in Dubai, why can&#8217;t you be<br \/>\nin New York?), then took the Tube at Finchely Road back home for two<br \/>\nstops.<br \/>\nWhen my groceries were safely deposited back home, I had my<br \/>\n second breakfast: Waitrose&#8217;s Fruit and Nut Muesli with Honey-Vanilla<br \/>\nYoghurt and the,n in half an hour, I was out the door myself and ready<br \/>\nto hit the sales.<\/p>\n<p>\n<em>Disappointments Galore at Posh Stores:<\/em><br \/>\nOnly<br \/>\n I had arrived in London too late this year, you see&#8211;all so-called<br \/>\npost-Christmas sales ended on Saturday evening, it appears. Arriving at<br \/>\nGreen Park station, I strode past the Ritz and into <em>Fortnum&#8217;s<\/em><br \/>\nhoping to find some of its famed goodies on sale&#8211;only to find Nothing.<br \/>\nAnd I mean Nada. As a 14 came sailing down Picaadilly, on I hopped<br \/>\nthinking Harrods has never let me down. But when I inquired inside,<br \/>\nMadam was icily informed that the sale ended two days ago! Darn and<br \/>\nBlast! Still, I bet there was some dregs still to be had. Somewhat<br \/>\ninspired, I asked for the Souvenir section&#8211;and as I rode the escalators<br \/>\n past all the heads of Nefertiti smiling down on me and spying the new<br \/>\nsculpture of Diana and Dodi and the soaring seagull in the basement,<br \/>\nprovocatively entitled &#8220;Innocent Victims&#8221; , I arrived at the third floor<br \/>\n where my eyes alighted on Christmas Pudding&#8211;not just any pudding, mind<br \/>\n you, but luxury ones sold in the signature Harrod&#8217;s ceramic pudding<br \/>\nbowls. Yes!!!! They were heavy as sin and would be a pain to haul across<br \/>\n the pond, but still. It had not been a worthless journey.<\/p>\n<p>\n<em>Finally! On Carnaby Street:<\/em><br \/>\nBack<br \/>\n on the Tube , I headed for Soho and the arching signs of Carnaby Street<br \/>\n which I had never seen&#8211;because I had never been there! Off at Oxford<br \/>\nCircus on a particularly chilly day, I was grateful for my layers of<br \/>\ncashmere, when my eyes alighted on Liberty of London&#8211;another iconic<br \/>\nstore famed for its pretty cotton printed fabrics and its Tudor design.<br \/>\nWell, although I had intentions to buy nothing, how could I resist? It<br \/>\nwas worth the thrill alone of riding in those linen-fold wooden<br \/>\npannelled lifts alone. So off I sped to the top floor where the last<br \/>\nremnant items of their sale are still on display. Slim pickin&#8217;s,<br \/>\neverywhere, I thought, disappointedly.<\/p>\n<p>\nA few minutes later, I was<br \/>\nstriding out the chocolate shop and right on to Carnaby Street and there<br \/>\n they were&#8211;those arched signed soaring high above the street and saying<br \/>\n Welcome to Carnaby Street. I had a wander all the while becoming<br \/>\nincreasingly aware of the weight on my shoulders for <em>en route,<\/em> I<br \/>\n had also found a Boots pharmacy from where I cleaned out a sale on Dove<br \/>\n Silken Glow Body Wash&#8211;perhaps the best buy ever in toiletries and the<br \/>\nonly hand soap you will ever find in our bathrooms back home. With its<br \/>\nsophisticated French perfume you might think you had paid a small<br \/>\nfortune each time you squirt a bit on your palm. You would be wrong. One<br \/>\n Mission Well Accomplished!<\/p>\n<p>\n<em>More Disappointments in Store:<\/em><br \/>\nThe<br \/>\n idea was to deposit my loaded sack back home on Abbey Road and find<br \/>\ntransport to Highgate for my 1. 45 pm tour. But although the spirit was<br \/>\nwilling, the flesh succumbed to jetlag; and still cold-clogged,<br \/>\nsleep-deprived me felt a bit light-headed as I left my flat to try to<br \/>\nfind my way there. Not being so familiar with North London and the<br \/>\nnetwork of Tubes and buses there, I made some terrible mistakes as I<br \/>\nfollowed maps (no GPS on my internet once I step out of the house,<br \/>\nremember?) and before I knew it, I was at Swiss Cottage trying to find a<br \/>\n cab to get me there on time. No such luck! Not a cab was in sight as I<br \/>\ntrudged along and bus drivers are nowhere as helpful as they once used<br \/>\nto be&#8211;they seemed never to have heard of Highgate Cemetery and<br \/>\ncertainly did not know how to point me in the next direction. I was<br \/>\ntired and sleepy and frustrated and knew I could not get there on time.<br \/>\nIt was time for Plan B.<\/p>\n<p>\n<em>More Retail Therapy on Elizabeth Street:<\/em><br \/>\nI<br \/>\n had stopped to fix myself a sandwich when home and it was on a Green<br \/>\nPark bench back in the city, watched by crafty pigeons and craftier<br \/>\nsquirrels, that I ate it and gave myself a bit of a rest. Then, I was on<br \/>\n the Tube again and headed to Sloan Square and Elizabeth Street to<br \/>\nindulge in a treat for which I had waited a very long time&#8211;15 months to<br \/>\n be precise: being introduced to <em>Jo Loves<\/em>, the new avatar of my<br \/>\n favorite perfumier, Jo Malone. She opened her one and only store<br \/>\nexactly one month after I last left&nbsp; London the last time and the Number<br \/>\n One item on my agenda was a visit to her store for an introduction to<br \/>\nher new line.<\/p>\n<p>\nIn the able hands of Michael, I had my skin painted<br \/>\nwith brushes laden with body creme. Strips of card were sprayed with her<br \/>\n new works of sensual art: Pomelo, Green Orange and Coriander, A Shot of<br \/>\n Sweet Peas, Pink Vetiver (my favorite), A Shot of Thai Lime over Mango.<br \/>\n Ceramic Tagines gave me the experience of stepping into a fragrant<br \/>\nsteaming bath&#8211;Jo calls it caviar for the bath tube. Being the expert<br \/>\nmarketer she is, she would. They went on and on. Inspired by her travels<br \/>\n (in Thailand, in New York and by the store next-door, a florist, where<br \/>\nshe had begun her working life in retail), Michael did a competent job<br \/>\nenticing me. I had thought, knowing &#8220;Jo&#8221; as if she were my best friend<br \/>\nor sister, I would absolutely adore them all. But nothing of the sort<br \/>\nhappened and but for two, I was left not too enthused. Perhaps it will<br \/>\ntake my nose and my psyche a while to make the transition. We shall see.<br \/>\n I was presented with sample strips although no real sample phials were<br \/>\ngiven, and off I went down Elizabeth Street which on a less freezing day<br \/>\n would, no doubt, offer more enticements.<\/p>\n<p>\n<em>Off to King&#8217;s Cross:<\/em><br \/>\nIt<br \/>\n was time to touch base with my friend Rosemary whom I know as Roz who<br \/>\nwas meeting me at King&#8217;s Cross for our evening together. The Victoria<br \/>\nLine took me directly to the spot she suggested: the Square in front of<br \/>\nthe station near the Henry Moore sculpture (added recently). I was<br \/>\nearly, I needed the loo, I decided to wander into the&nbsp; newly-refurbished<br \/>\n Renaissance&nbsp; Hotel to see the spectacular stairway that a fond<br \/>\nlong-time Londoner claimed was his favorite place in the entire city (I<br \/>\ncan&#8217;t remember who). Thank you dear Sir John Betjeman for saving this<br \/>\ngorgeous building from destruction. It has, despite all restrictions,<br \/>\nbeen artfully converted into a modern hotel. Today, its corridors gleam,<br \/>\n its Gothic windows offer views of a busy street that sees hordes<br \/>\nspilling out by the minute and bars galore, named suitably <em>The Gilbert Scott<\/em> (the original Victorian architect) and <em>The Betjeman Arms<\/em><br \/>\n (after the 20th century poet who saved it) allow the passer-by to enjoy<br \/>\n a drink and a sit-down. I used the lovely loo, as intended, before<br \/>\nmaking my way to the square where, five minutes later, I had a lovely<br \/>\nreunion with Roz just off work.<\/p>\n<p>\n<em>Laser Lights Festival at Canary Wharf&#8211;Not!!!<\/em><br \/>\nIt was time for a warming cup of tea in the station concourse and before long, we were catching up at <em>Leon<\/em><br \/>\n over steaming paper glasses&#8211;why has London succumbed to such trashy<br \/>\nNew York ways? Where are the civilized ceramic pots of tea that you<br \/>\ncould only find in the UK when you ordered tea please? So many changes<br \/>\nand some not quite appealing enough!<\/p>\n<p>\nThen, we were on the Tube<br \/>\nheaded to Canary Wharf. Roz had been justifiably doubtful about the<br \/>\nLights Show that the Visit Britain tweet had recommended throughout the<br \/>\nmonth of January. But I was the foreigner and she was indulgent. Canary<br \/>\nWharf was not her favorite place, but there were lights and&nbsp; there was a<br \/>\n <em>Carluccio&#8217;s<\/em>, so why not, she said???<\/p>\n<p>\nOnly there really<br \/>\nwasn&#8217;t very much to impress. Trees still sport their ice-blue strings of<br \/>\n lights but I suspect those have been left over since Christmas. That<br \/>\nsaid, if there were lights were wanted, there were thousands&#8211;from the<br \/>\nsoaring skyscrapers that formed a concrete well-illuminated city. In the<br \/>\n park nearby, whose ingeniously-designed gushing fountains sported a few<br \/>\n floating discs of light that changed color cutely by the minute, there<br \/>\nwere some lights.&nbsp; But the laser projections on the building walls and<br \/>\non the river that I had expected were nowhere in sight.<\/p>\n<p>\n<em>Dinner Time at Carluccio&#8217;s:<\/em><br \/>\nIt was time for some serious eating to compensate for our disappointment and <em>Carluccio&#8217;s<\/em><br \/>\n never disappoints (why Mr. Carluccio, do you not leap over the Atlantic<br \/>\n and come to America?). We chose the Primi and Secondi specials for<br \/>\n10.99 pounds each&#8211;the kind of deal you can never dream of finding in<br \/>\nAmerica. And how well we chose too! We had two starters of caponata that<br \/>\n were served bruschetta-style over warmed goat&#8217;s cheese and toast points<br \/>\n to be laden with chicken pate and the most divine caramelized oinions.<br \/>\nOver glasses of red wine, we had ourselves a most decadent first course<br \/>\nand being the conscious, careful eaters we are (we talked mostly about<br \/>\nfood after we had discussed family and work doings!), we seriously<br \/>\nwondered whether we could do justice to our mains: polenta with<br \/>\nslow-cooked beef ragu poured all over it (delicioso!) and al dente<br \/>\nserved penne pasta with spicy Italian sausage. Predictably, we enjoyed<br \/>\nboth courses immensely but could only pick. Needless to say, we skipped<br \/>\non the dolci (my favorite course, always foregone, sadly) and then we<br \/>\nwere out of the maze that is the malls and the corporate offices and on<br \/>\nthe Jubilee Line headed home.<\/p>\n<p>\nI was exhausted and 10.00 pm when I<br \/>\nput key through door (I had hopped off at Baker Street and switched to a<br \/>\n bus that dropped me right opposite my building instead of having to<br \/>\nwalk from the Tube station down Grove End Road), it was all I could do<br \/>\nto greet my hosts (little Jonas was already in bed) and crash.<\/p>\n<p>\nRetail<br \/>\n Therapy had provided little solace but meeting my friend and catching<br \/>\nup with her is always a pleasure and it somewhat made up for the cold,<br \/>\nthe lack of goodies to take back home and the fact of getting hopelessly<br \/>\n lost in trying to find Highgate. The only silver lining was that the<br \/>\nclerk at the cemetery had sympathized with my situation and, through a<br \/>\nphone call, offered me the tour tomorrow.<\/p>\n<p>\n&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Until then, cheerio!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Monday, January 19, 2015 London Jetlag still has control over my life; but when it paid a 3. 15 am Wake-Up Call, it was decidedly better than the previous night&#8217;s&#8211;2. 15 am. I used time creatively once again to update my blog and scour the Web for suggestions on What To Do. 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