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Tea with Blair, Post-Christmas Sales and Return to the National Gallery

Tuesday, January 13, 2009
London

Being still jetlagged, I awoke at 3. 15 am, tossed and turned until 4. 15 am then gave up attempting to fall back to sleep. Since I am clearly still on Bombay Time it made sense to spend an hour reading The White Tiger, Aravind Adiga’s Booker Prize winning novel that my friend Firdaus Gandavia, aka Dr. G, gifted me in Bombay. While it is stylistically unusual and entertaining, it is hard to see what made it deserve so prestigious an award. But perhaps I should reserve my judgment until I finish the book.

A half hour devoted to my blog followed by a call to my parents in Bombay made me realize that I miss them sorely, every single one of my family members with whom I spent two recent weeks–Chriselle and Chris included. Dying to hear their voices again, I dialled eagerly and was delighted to catch up again with my parents whose new refrigerator has been delivered. All is well at Silverhome with geyser, water filter and lights all behaving as they should and a brand new fridge in the kitchen to boot. My mother is stress free for the moment, she says…

Breakfast (eggs and coffee) was followed by an exercise session (I am trying to be religious about getting in four sessions a day) as I continued to stretch my plantar fascia while watching Vikas Swarup, author of the novel Q&A appear on the Breakfast Show. He is the new Boy Wonder, now that his novel has become an international cinematic success with a new name–Slumdog Millionaire. Unlike most authors who have a stack of rejection slips and several unpublished manuscripts tucked away somewhere before they attain recognition, Swarup’s first novel, written within two months, found an agent in merely a few tries and a publisher soon after. Bravo!

More chores followed–the folding and putting away of laundry, the washing of dishes. Then a long and lovely shower and I felt prepared to face the day. First stop: The Leather Lane Street Market where I bought fresh fruit and vegetables. With the new year having dawned, I am trying to eat more salads and intend to end each meal with fresh fruit. I then disappeared down the Tube stairwell to buy myself a monthly bus pass. Back at home, I stacked my produce on the kitchen counter before I ran out to the bus stop to take the Number 8 to Marble Arch where I had made an 11 am appointment to meet my friend Blair Williams and his wife Ellen, visiting from New Jersey, in the basement cafe.

I stopped en route at the Jo Malone store on Brooke Street to make an appointment for a Facial Workshop for 12 noon tomorrow–a session that will be accompanied by a Champagne Tea! My, my, how special that made me feel! I intend to try a variety of their newest products as I am a huge Jo Malone fan. Then, I hurried off to M&S and found Blair and Ellen entering the same elevators that I took to get downstairs. How was that for timing? I was next enveloped in a warm bear hug as my friends reunited with me on British soil.

Over a pot of lemon and ginger tea, we caught up. Blair and Ellen are on a long spate of travels around the world. Their next stop is India tomorrow and then on to Singapore and Hongkong, Vietnam and China. We talked about my research on Anglo-Indians as Blair had been my chief source of inspiration and encouragement as I had launched upon this inquiry. We were joined shortly by Hazel Egan, a college classmate of the Williams’. After about an hour, I left the group to their own nostalgic reminiscences and made my way out.

Having missed the post-Christmas sales for which the major department stores in London are noted, I decided that I simply must take a look even if it is rather late in the day. So, hear this, all your shopaholics out there, ALL of London is on sale! From the glitz of Harrods and the High Street to the smallest holes in the wall, retailers have slashed prices and massive signs proclaiming sales everywhere seem determined to entice the shopper. I took a bus to Knightsbridge, heading straight for Harrods, and found myself overwhelmed by the number of items piled high up in bins that are up for sale. After browsing through a few, I chose a few luxurious goodies in which to indulge–Woods of Windsor Soap Packs in Lily of the Valley and Lavender fragrances and silky body moisturizer from Floris in the … range, to which, believe it or not, I had become introduced on Air-India flights. The airline used to stock Floris’ moisturizer and cologne in its restrooms once upon a time!

In the food halls, I picked up a loaf of fresh Walnut Bread, an almond croissant and a chocolate scone and over a cup of free Java at Krispy Kreme donuts (courtesy of the new Obama Presidency), I had myself a carb-rich lunch–sigh…just when I made a resolution to cut them down. I could not resist strolling through Laduree, the upscale Parisian tea shop that has a branch at Harrods, but I did draw the line at indulging in their world famous macaroons–another time for sure when I am feeling less virtuous! Someone had once told me that you needed to spend a penny (or a pound, quite literally) to use the rest rooms at Harrods, but I discovered that this was far from true as the basement restrooms were not only free but well stocked with a variety of free cosmetics as well!!!

Another bus took me to Fortnum and Mason where I browsed around their Sale merchandise. I was disappopinted to discover that there wasn’t a fifty per cent sale there as everywhere else. I did walk out with a lovely perfumed candle in Pink Grapefruit though–I really do have a weakness for this aroma–one of the few items that was offered at half price. It felt wonderful to have been able to buy a few things at least at these satisfying prices and though all Harrods’ Christmas puddings had gone, I was glad I did buy two earlier in the year–one of which we ate in Southport at Christmas and the other at New Year in Bombay!

I then hopped into a bus again that took me to Trafalgar Square where I intended to spend a few good hours back in the galleries. ‘Back’ because after Plantar fascitis had hit me, I had given up my study of the paintings there and intended to resume them after my feet felt less strained. Having covered the Sainsbury Wing last semester, I started my perusal of the 16th century with Homan Potterton’s Guide to the National Gallery to help me along. Locating the most important canvasses through the catalogue in the basement, I then spent a while in the company of Leonardo da Vinci and Michaelangelo and Corregio, Lucus Cranach and Hans Holbein, Andrea del Sarto and Raphael. The galleries were largely empty and, in many cases, I had them entirely to myself. I realized that I have missed my solitary sessions in museums and that I am happiest when wrapped in lone contemplation of canvases by Old Masters.

Then, it was time to take the bus and return home to a quiet dinner and some TV. London is usually mild for this time of year and it was a pleasure to walk its streets and browse through its attractive shops. As the week goes by, I hope to fill my moments with many more such pleasurable activity.

Just before I switched my PC off for the day, I did make a booking to Oslo, Norway, for the end of February. At a pound per journey on Ryanair, it was irresistible and since the Youth Hostel in downtown Oslo was able to offer accommodation, my plans were made within minutes. It is just such offers as these that make my stay here in London so worthwhile and I look forward very much to many more such spontaneous trips of this kind as the semester moves on.

Back ‘Home’ in London

Monday, January 2009
London

London slumbered under leaden skies as my Jet Airways aircraft landed at 7 am from Bombay. It was one of the speediest flights I can remember taking. Nine hours vanished in a blink as I slept soundly for almost six of them, then spent the last three watching The Duchess, a film I had wanted to see in the theater but missed. It was spellbinding from start to finish and I could see why comparisons were made between the spirited Georgina, Duchess of Devonshire in the late 18th century and Lady Diana Spencer, who just happened to be her descendant. Played quite splendidly by Kiera Knightley, the portrayal of the Duchess was one of sheer pathos that was matched scene for scene by Ralph Fiennes who played her callous and powerful husband, the Duke. Apart from the injustice that women, even aristocratic women, had to contend with in a hypocritical age that was rife with double standards, the film was extraordinary for its settings and locations and at the end of the movie, I took down the names of the various locales used during the shooting with the idea of visiting these estates.

I also saw the end of the Bollywood movie Taare Zameen Par–I had watched most of it en route to Bombay, two weeks ago, but we had landed in the city before I saw the heart warming denouement. As I sniffed my way through the two movies, my travel companions seemed bemused by my sadness. I can see why my mother is so much in love with Aamir Khan. As for me, I am no longer besotted by movie stars.

Jet Airways’ Inflight service is just fabulous. I did not just feel well looked after, I felt positively pampered. Meals were substantial and delicious (yes, I know that this is airline food we’re talking about here) and the crew were courtesy personified. Apart from the fact that my one bag took forever to get to the conveyor belt, my travel from Bombay to London was worry free. I tried calling my folks in Bombay to tell them that I had touched down safely but discovered that my cell phone was out of battery. It would be a while before I reached my flat and could charge it.

I took the Tube home, alighting at Holborn and choosing to walk the ten minutes to my place. London was predictably dreary though exceptionally mild. At the Krispy Kreme donuts shop right outside Holborn Tube station, free Americano coffee was being dished out and I gratefully joined the band of morning commuters to get my cup of Java which I nursed carefully on the walk along High Holborn. I was amazed at how much like Home London now feels to me. It was like returning to the embrace of a warm and trusted friend and as I arrived at the door of my building and had it opened by a welcoming Martha and Arben (janitor and concierge respectively), it seemed as if I have known them forever. It was wonderful. By 9.30, I was opening the door to my flat, just delighted to be back in this space that I have so grown to love.

I charged my cell phone and a little later was calling my Dad as well as Chriselle who happened to be at my brother Roger’s place. Hearing her voice was heart breaking to me as was that of my nephew Arav’s and I know that I will miss everyone of my immediate and extended family for the next few days as I settle down, once again, to my solitary life in this city.

Then, my chores began–there was a load of laundry to do and a suitcase to unpack. There was a boiler to be switched on again– to do which Arben visited me briefly. There were 128 email messages to be downloaded and read and NYU email to be reviewed. Because I was not online in Bombay, I had so many things to catch up with. My friend and fellow Anglo-Indian scholar Blair Williams from New Jersey happens to be here in London. I shot off an email to him and before long we were talking on the phone and making plans to meet tomorrow for coffee. I felt full of beans, despite my long haul across Europe and it seemed like a good time to do some blogging. I stopped for a soup lunch then continued reading and responding to email.

I realize how much I enjoy the quietness of this flat and the fact that I can so purposefully get to work to accomplish my goals. In the process of unpacking, I found a set of house keys that Llew and I had misplaced during his November visit. That was one mystery solved. I had to rearrange my wardrobe a little bit to accommodate the clothes and pairs of shoes I picked up from Southport and carted off to India–mostly formal wear for the many weddings I attended.

Between unpacking and sorting and reorganizing my toiletries and medicines in the bathroom, the day passed by, rather unhurriedly. I miss my parents, Chriselle and Chris, my brothers and my nephew and niece (especially after I donwloaded my photographs and looked at the video clips I shot), but it is so good to be back. Despite the dullness of the weather, London felt oddly welcoming and I am slowly unwinding from what was a very emotional departure from Bombay.

Tomorrow is another day and I hope my spirits will feel lighter than they do today–and more rejuvenated. I have a week to spend as I wish before teaching begins next week and I really do want to use it productively. I have given myself one day (today) to unwind and get over jetlag, but it will be back to business for me with a vengeance tomorrow.

A White Connecticut Christmas!

Monday, December 22, 2008
Southport, CT

If I had been dreaming of a white Christmas in Connecticut, I would not have been disappointed. Snow is piled up about 6 inches thick and the driveway at Holly Berry House is a skating rink. Not having driven for four months, I am a nervous wreck behind the wheel as I try to coax our Toyota Camry to climb the slight incline towards our garage. I have a bit of shopping to do—gifts for folks in India and ingredients for our Christmas meal. But this evening, I will be meeting my pals at dinner at Bangalore Restaurant in Fairfield.

It turns out that my friend and world travel companion Amy Tobin initiated the move that would bring a few of her closest Fairfield friends together for a Reunion to coincide with my visit home. After much mass-emailing, the group finally found a mutually convenient date…except that in the morning, Llew called to tell me that the volume at work was so intense, he seriously thought he would miss the meal altogether. I called my friend Amy de Lannoy and asked her for a ride and she came with husband Dan promptly at 7. 20 to pick me up.

What a lovely raucous reunion we all had at Bangalore! There was Mary-Lauren and her husband Brett, Bonnie and husband Art, Amy with Dan and, of course, Amy Tobin with her Significant Other Rothschild whom, except for Llew and myself, none of the others had met. In fact, they had almost begun to believe that Rothschild–more elusive than the Scarlet Pimpernel –did not exist beyond Amy’s imagination. The folks at Bangalore gave us a private room which allowed us to be even more raucous all evening long as we caught up on all our news. I was so thrilled to have been able to see so many of my Fairfield friends again at one go and I am very grateful to Amy Tobin for setting this up and to Amy de Lannoy for coordinating the effort.

Llew, of course, was missing, and as the resident ‘India Expert’, I was invited to order our meal. Amy de Lannoy, who knows Bangalore and Indian food better than the others, consulted with me and we settled for Lamb Biryani, Chicken Tikka Masala (Amy T’s must-have), Navratan Korma, Shrimp Chemeen Curry, Chicken Tangdi Kebab—and all of the food was delicious. Every one of us relished the meal to the very last morsel, so that by the time poor Llew turned up, the dishes did not require washing! However, he was able to join us for a glass of wine while a few of us opted for masala chai. Conversation never stopped for a second as we discussed everything—from Chriselle’s engagement and wedding plans to Amy de Lannoy’s new dog, from Halle’s job to The Factoras’ Christmas plans…on and on it went, and of course, I talked about my new life in London and how much I love it—trying hard all the time not to gush too much! Everyone was delighted that Llew was able to join us even if for a little while. It was a lovely end to a lovely day!

Tuesday, December 23, 2008
Southport, CT

With only two days left to Christmas, I have finally surfaced to start to think about gift wrapping. I multi-tasked, retrieving boxes from our basement, measuring wrapping paper and decorating parcels with Christmas ornaments. I also put together a number of gift bags for Llew to take to his colleagues at BNP Paribas. After he left, I set about trying to mail out our annual Christmas greetings via email. I started off okay, but somewhere also the way I messed up and ended up losing connectivity to the Internet. This turned out to be my inadvertent installation of a Firewall which has stopped us accessing the internet and there went my project for the year. It seems as if a few of the folks on our mailing list did get the letter containing a round up of our family news, but most of the others will now have to wait until January 14 or 15 when I will be back home in London and am online again.

Since I have no internet connection at my parents’ place in Bandra, Bombay, Chriselle talked me out of carrying my laptop to India and I think her suggestion was very sound indeed. Not having my PC, will give me the chance to truly interact with my parents, spend quality time with them and my cousin Blossom and her kids and generally make for a more fruitful stay in India. I will, of course, continue to keep a travel journal as I always do, and I will resume blogging retrospectively,

Here in snow-ridden Southport, I still seem to be keeping London time for I am awaking at 5 am and by 8 pm, I fall comatose on the couch. Llew is keeping extraordinarily late hours at the bank and doesn’t get home until 10 pm. but he does have the day off tomorrow. And so I finally turned to the matter of a menu for our Christmas dinner. Hard to believe how long grocery shopping and running bank errands takes, but I was only able to get back home at 11. 30 am to start cooking. I have to say that everything feels a little odd including donning my apron and starting to cook. It’s not as if I have forgotten how to wield a laddle—it’s just that for almost three months now, I have barely cooked at all in London and though I realized that I love it and miss messin’ around a kitchen, it still felt a little strange to have to start chopping and peeling and re-discovering that the burners on my cooking range do not light spontaneously but need to be manually lit with a match!

I spent the afternoon making Chole, Stuffing Mushrooms with Bacon and Caramelized Onions and pouring a cheese sauce over the lot. I also made my mother’s Cucumber-Coconut Salad and the Koftas for the Kofta Biryani. By 5 pm, I was tired and went off for a short nap only to come down to the kitchen again to start preparations for the Rajpipla Chicken (Parsi-Style, another recipe from my mother’s vast repertoire of favorites) which I marinated in a ginger-garlic paste. Suddenly, conjuring culinary magic felt fabulous again and I was thrilled to have all the pots and pans and utensils I needed for a large meal of this kind.

When Llew got home, we watched the Jay Leno shows and Britcoms that he had TIVO-ed for me. He was also keen for me to view the Saturday Night Live installments that he had saved in which Sarah Palin had been so mercilessly parodied. We laughed till our sides ached. It was like old times again—two (old) Couch Potatoes who thoroughly enjoy dinner and the telly. Then, we were watching New Tricks, a British mystery series. Only I fell asleep on the sofa at the very climax, just as I used to do until four months ago! Put me in front of a TV after a good meal and I am out like a light!!!

Wednesday, December 24, 2008
Southport, CT

Llew had taken the day off so we luxuriated all morning, eating a big breakfast and lingering over coffee. He had a doctor’s appointment in the morning, which left me enough time to complete the chicken that had been marinating overnight in my fridge. After frying it till it was golden brown, I made the yogurt sauce flavored with tomato ketchup and Worcestershire sauce that drowns it in a yummy bath!

By the time Llew got back, the rain had started to fall—freezing rain and sleet and I wanted to stay cooped up at home, except that Llew persuaded me to get into the car with him and drive up to Clinton Crossings to the designer outlets so that I could get all my shopping for India done in one fell swoop. Llew had been up there himself with our Canadian friends at Thanksgiving and had informed me that the prices were unbeatable. He wanted to buy a few pairs of trousers, I need a few gifts for my loved ones in India and overall, it made sense to schlep up there and kill as many birds as we could with one stone. So much as I wanted to stay homebound, I complied with his suggestion and off we went.

Driving conditions were pretty awful and visibility was very poor indeed, but when we arrived at Clinton, it was fabulous. We went into stores like Geoffrey Beene and Van Heusen that appeared to be closing down completely. Merchandise was pretty much being given away and I found great clothing for my relatives in India, Llew found the trousers he wanted, I got a bunch of Argyle patterned socks and feeling exceedingly pleased with ourselves, we returned home in time for showers and to catch the 6 pm evening Mass at St. Thomas Aquinas Church, our parish in Fairfield.

At 5. 30 pm, the church was already half full—it is always a mystery to me how so many folks seem to crawl out of the woodwork only at Christmas and Easter! Where are all these people during the rest of the year? Fr. Martin was in great spirits—in keeping with the season. A few mornings ago, when I went to the Rectory to pick up some additional calendars for my brother Russel in Bombay, I had bumped into Fr. Martin and received a warm and very hearty welcome as well as a hug and a kiss! He was so pleased to see me again and wanted to know all about my life in London. That’s one of the nicest things about coming home to a small Connecticut town–everyone knows everybody else.

Mass was very interesting indeed. There was a Nativity Pageant put on by the kids—a lovely attempt at recreating that first Christmas except that Mary was taller and probably older than the slightly-built Joseph. Wonderful singing from our choir (though I was disappointed by the absence of the ‘Hallelujah Chorus’ from Handel’s Messiah) and the bringing out of the cake, fully lit with a gazillion candles that were blown out as all the kids in church sang ‘Happy Birthday to Jesus’, make the entire mass very special indeed.

Then, at the very end, when I was returning from Communion, I spotted our neighbor John Donovan sitting with his family, three pews behind ours, and waving enthusiastically to me. Of course, then, after Mass, I had a fabulous reunion with Trish, his wife and my walking partner, who tells me that she misses me sorely because she has no one to walk with anymore! She commiserated with me over Plantar Fascittis and informed me that she had it a few years ago, brought on by running. It took her two to three months, she said, to get rid of it, which is much less time than it seems to be taking me to lick it. From everything I have heard since arriving in the States, I must keep up with the exercises and not give up doing them even when it seems like I am healing. Trish suggested yoga (she is a huge yoga afficionado) and gave me all the news about our new neighbors next door, who moved in while I was in London. Gosh, it really seems as if I will have a lot of catching up to do by the time I arrive in Connecticut next year. “You’ll really like them, Rochelle”, said Trish about the Trottas, who have moved up north from Florida and are thrilled about all the snow and ice as they’ve never truly experienced a white winter, Trish tells me!

Meanwhile, my friend Rosemary Harding in Cincinnati (to whom I chatted on the phone) and Mary Jo Smith in Connecticut both told me to continue doing the exercises as stretching the plantar is the only way to make the condition disappear for good. Not having done the exercises for more than three weeks now, I feel awful, but have resovled to resume my exercise routine right away! I am amazed at how many people tell me that they have had plantar fascittis or know someone who had it. Mary, my dental hygienist, told me that her mother had it ten years ago!

Llew and I returned home to one of our traditional Christmas Eve dinners—Roasted Shrimp with Garlic and Tomatoes served with crusty bread and a green salad. This is what I most miss. Being at home with Llew, eating a home-cooked meal, sipping a glass of wine, having something terrific on the telly. By the way, I’ve discovered that Ina Garten, aka The Barefoot Contessa, has a new TV series on—it’s called Back to Basics and is accompanied by one of her fabulous books—which I hope I will find in my Christmas stocking! When I get back to London, I will start watching her show again as I am sure they will show the newest episodes based on the latest book.

Thursday, December 25, 2008
Southport, CT

Christmas Day dawned crisp and clean, the land covered by a blanket of glistening snow. I swear that for the first few moments when I opened my eyes, I had no idea where I was. The silence was complete and added to my sense of bewilderment. Was I in London? Was I in Bombay? Opening one of my eyes, very slowly, I spied the navy blue down comforter draped around me and I realized then that I was home in Southport, Connecticut. It was the strangest feeling in the world.

Because we had been to mass the previous evening, we had the morning to laze around and eat a big brunch. I always fix us a Seafood Brunch Strada on Christmas morning with shrimp and crabmeat, sautéed onions and three cheeses all bound together with an egg custard. It’s always scrumptious and since I bake it in a huge casserole, Llew will have plenty of leftovers!

Llew pottered around on our computer trying to disable the firewall and get internet connectivity again but he wasn’t able to succeed. I began assembling a salad that involved the use of pomegranate seeds and we all know how long it takes to get those little rubies out of those canvas shells! I decided that since we have so many bottles of champagne at home, I would fix Peach Bellinnis when Chriselle and Chris arrive later in the afternoon–a way of celebrating their engagement! Chriselle spent Christmas Eve with Chris’ folks in the Hamptons and attended mass with them this morning. The drive from Long Island to Connecticut should take them about two hours. We expect them by 1. 30 or 2 pm.

I pureed the peaches for the Bellinnis, juiced the pomegranate to make the syrup for the cocktails and assembled the rest of the ingredients for the salad—romaine lettuce, mandarin oranges, honey roasted peanuts, goat cheese in a parsley-flavored dressing—a variation on a recipe that was given to me years ago by my friend Liz Stiles. I also began to parboil basmati rice for the biryani and put the finishing touches on the table—we had English crackers at each place setting and all of these little touches made me feel so very festive. I love Christmas because it makes me feel like a kid again and this year is extra special because I am spending it with the loved ones whom I have crossed an ocean to see!

Chriselle and Chris arrived on cue at 2.00pm in Santa guise for they did enter hauling what looked like a huge sack of gifts! They were delighted with the Bellinis. Of course, we took a few pictures by the tree before we settled down to catch up with everything that has happened in their lives since I left in August—not the least of which is their engagement and wedding plans! I admired Chriselle’s diamond solitaire before we decided to begin our meal. Chris loves Indian food and couldn’t wait to tuck in. The Salad was a huge hit and was followed by the Chicken with Chole and Mushrooms served with Naans. When that was done, I brought out the Kofta Biryani and the Cucumber-Coconut Salad. We decided to take a break and have dessert only after we’d finished opening gifts.

Chriselle loved the outfits I got her from Oxford Street and quite happily modeled them for us as she opened each box. For Chris, at Chriselle’s suggestion, we got a zipped sweat shirt and an ornament from the Metropolitan Museum. I had brought Llew a DVD of the French and Saunders Still Alive Show that I had seen alone at Drury Lane Theater in London. When I had tried to buy a ticket for him when he was with me in London, every single one was sold out. I was delighted that he could at least enjoy it through DVD. I also got him the twin set of Cliff Richard’s 50th anniversary DVD with which he was delighted. He said he would download it on to his Ipod at once. Chris looked bewildered, never having heard of Cliff Richard and we had to inform him that Cliff Richard was only one of the most popular singers in the UK (and maybe the world!) and had been for 50 years!

As for me, I was perfectly pleased with my Ina Garten Back to Basics Book—it was exactly what I wanted and I couldn’t wait to browse through it, but, of course, I know that this pleasure will have to wait until I return to the States next year. Chriselle squealed when she opened a present from Chris to discover the DVD of Mamma Mia, a movie she hadn’t seen. Since Llew hadn’t seen it either, we decided to spend the rest of the afternoon watching it and singing along, much to Chris’ amusement.

Half way through the movie (which I had seen twice inflight across the pond), I went into the kitchen to fix coffee and dessert. This was my piece de resistance—a Limited Edition vintage Christmas Pudding from Harrods which came with silver pennies to pop into each serving (so that everyone came out a lucky winner) and a jar of brandy butter. I sent Llew out into the garden to snip off a sprig of holly to decorate the top (our home is not called Holly Berry House for nothing!) and turned it over on a plate. Needless to say, the pudding had been steaming for two hours on the stove while we were at dinner and was still wonderfully warm. I poured a generous quantity of rum over it and then set it alight and we all watched with glee as the blue flame enveloped the pud in a warm light. I also set out Mince Pies (Chris thought they were filled with ground beef not realizing that mincemeat in the UK is candied dried fruit!) With cream and coffee, we enjoyed our lovely English treats that came in a ceramic pudding basin with Harrods emblazoned on the side of it—a true keeper and one in which I know I will make Christmas puddings in the years to come!

With the movie having come to an end and dessert consumed, the Christmas festivities came to a halt. It was a very different Christmas from the ones we usually have—we have combined with our close friends Ian and Jenny Sequeira and their kids to have a joint celebration for several years and last year, there were fifteen adults at Christmas at our place! This year was just the opposite—it was quiet and relaxed–with just the four of us. We had loads of fun, we did pull crackers, I did insist that we wear our hats throughout the meal, we did keep the champagne flowing and we did watch a movie and enjoy a great meal together.

But for me, most of all, this Christmas was one in which I had an epiphany of sorts. It was one, perhaps because I have been so far away from my loved ones, in which I learned the true meaning of the season. Christmas, I now realize, is all about compassion for those who have so much less than we do and it is about giving till it hurts. In faraway Belfast, I was taught the lesson that my Dad has been trying to teach me for years—that there is greater joy in giving than in receiving. I learned this lesson from a lone accordionist in Belfast who blew on his blue fingers as he stood on the sidewalk all day trying to earn a few pennies to keep his four children fed. I could not get the image of this Eastern European immigre out of my mind—far from the impoverished fields of Rumania which he has abandoned to seek a better life in Ireland for himself and his family, this man taught me how fabulous it can feel to fill a face with sudden and unexpected joy. Fernando’s face lit up like a candle when I placed a note in his hand. It was the largest pound note I had in my wallet at that time. I left Belfast holding close to my heart that extraordinarily warming feeling of having brought some joy to a few very poor people at this special time of year when so many folks are reeling from job losses. Tears filled my eyes as I walked away from Fernando–but they were not tears of sorrow at all. They were tears of the purest joy at how much happiness I had brought him by one small spontaneous gesture. Throughout Christmas Day, I kept thinking of those four poor Rumanian kids who, I hoped, would have a slightly better Christmas, because I had been moved by the sight of their hardworking father who stood on the street in the sleet and freezing rain of an Irish winter’s day in order to make a few pennies by playing his accordion.

For these gifts—the gifts of being with my nearest and dearest this holiday, for the peace that passeth understanding and for the happiness that came from my giving a small portion of my excess of possessions—I am truly grateful this Christmas.

Final Exam, Insider’s View of the British Museum and Hosting my First Party

Thursday, December 11, 2008
London

The last meeting of my class on Anglo-India took place today as I gave my final exam. My students have clearly reached the end of their tether and despite the fact that they have enjoyed London, they are now ready to board that flight homeward. They could not wait to get out of class and start to celebrate the end of the semester.

I had little time to waste. Right after the exam, I had made plans to meet Paul Collins, a scholar on the Middle East who works at the British Museum. I had been given his number by my friend and fellow docent Elizabeth Kaplan from the Metropolitan Museum in New York. “Call Paul”. she had said, “and he will give you an Insider’s Tour of the Ancient Near Eastern galleries”.

Paul was very obliging indeed and at noon, we met at the Main Information Desk. Paul explained that the Ancient Near Eastern and Islamic Galleries in the British Museum were recently combined to form the Middle Eastern Department which is where he is now based. In his company, I made my way first to the Karyatid from the Erechtheion, one of the buildings on the Acropolis. During my travels in Northern Ireland, I had been reading The Parthenon by Mary Beard, a paperback lent to me by my colleague Karen who recommended it warmly as a very good read. I had enjoyed it immensely and was keen to see the Karyatid, one of the sculptures of the graceful women that adorn the building that stands next to the Parthenon. It turns out that it is hidden far from view behind a temple of the Nereid’s in the Parthenon Section of the Museum. And how beautiful she is! How graceful! How delighted I was to be able to set eyes on her. I had been on a quest to find her from the time Llew and I left Athens and here she was!

Then, Paul took me into the Ancient Near Eastern section where the treasures from the palace at Nimrud in modern-day Iraq have been mounted on the walls. These exquisite bas reliefs show detailed life in the days of ancient Iraq when religion was polytheistic and the king was feted by the gods. Other panels presented life in the time of ancient Assyria. Here were scenes of bloody warfare and of startling brutality as the king went lion hunting with a variety of weapons and was always victorious over the beasts. Paul pointed out to me specific panels in which the features of the king and queen were deliberately defaced by successive victors who usurped the throne and wished to obliterate any vestiges of the presence of the king. It reminded me, and I pointed this out to Paul, of the American soldiers who toppled the statue of Sadam Hussein when they arrived as invaders and took over Baghdad. It seems that some aspects of history do not change, no matter how many centuries might elapse from one regime to the next. Paul also took me to the basement where he commented on panels that are now closed to the public as access is not so easy to large crowds.

The best part of the tour was the visit to the Study Room where Paul spends a great deal of his day. In this room which was once a stack in the British Library (which moved in 1998 to new premises at King’s Cross), thousands of slabs of cuneiform script have been preserved–and I mean thousands–for they number more than 34,000. These detailed ‘forms’ or ‘documents’ if you like, give scholars all manner of information about life in those days for the ancient Babylonians and Assyrians were compulsive record keepers and reams of text accompany the sculpture and visuals they created. I saw several scholars bent over these tiny bits of stone that are covered with text and Paul fascinated me by actually reading some of them. It was quite amazing indeed!

Then, after I ate my quiche and yogurt at the cafe, I took a bus to the Tesco at Covent Garden in order to buy paper products for the party I am throwing in the evening for the students in my Anglo-Indian course. I needed plates, glasses, napkins and cutlery and with those items purchased, I made my way on the bus back home. I had plenty of time to set up for the party as well as to clean and tidy my flat before the first guests arrived on the dot of five bringing an appetiser or a dessert each.

As I welcomed them in, I gave each one a Christmas cracker–another British tradition of which they were unaware. So many of them said, “Oh, I’ve been seeing these in the stores and wondering what they were!” I told them that they had to wear the hats that they found in the cracker throughout the party–these were colorful crepe paper crowns–one of which particularly suited a student named Arthur whom I then promptly christened King Arthur! We took a load of pictures and reminisced about London and the past semester. Many of them felt regretful about returning to the States as they have not completed all the travel they had intended to accomplish. (“I didn’t manage to get to Paris”, said one of them; “I just have to go to Windsor tomorrow”, said another).

I had provided Buck’s Fizz, a mocktail made with orange juice and sparkling wine and a fruit cake as they had never eaten one before. It happened to be the 20th birthday of my student, Tara Dougherty, so we asked her to cut the cake and as we sang for her, the fruit cake did the rounds. There were dips and chips, cheese and crackers, a variety of Indian snacks that I provided (samosas, onion bhajis and potato tikkis), and all sorts of nibbles. Most of the students brought a bottle of wine each. Others brought desserts–lava cakes, chocolate pudding, chocolate truffles. It was an eclectic spread and one we all enjoyed. A few of the late comers came in bearing a large platter of fried rice, home cooked and very delicious. As the champagne made the rounds, we drank to the end of another semester, a great stay in London and a safe return home.
I spent an hour after the last guest left at 8. 30pm cleaning and tidying my flat and washing up and putting away a load of leftover food that I have frozen. None of the students wanted to take any food away with them as they are all leaving tomorrow to return to the States. It had been a lovely evening and I am sorry to see them go as they were a memorable class and one to which I had grown close.

But, I guess, all good things must come to an end and as I grade the last batch of examination booklets, I am thinking of returning home to the States myself, quite unable to believe that one semester has already flown and that I have only one more to go here in London!

Just Another Soggy Sunday!

Sunday, November 30, 2008
London

Winter has arrived with a vengeance. It is cold and it is soggy. And that’s the thing about English rain…it’s never really a proper downpour. It’s always just a light spritz, a gentle drizzle, sometimes just the finest spray! Like Hawaii, in many ways, except that in Hawaii that spray lasts precisely five minutes and then the sun–and the rainbows!–come out again and the day goes on as if that shower had never happened at all.

Here, the spray continues all day–just enough to ensure that your umbrella is raised and the streets are wet and the populace stays indoors sipping hot chocolate, or, in this season that’s merry and bright, hot mulled wine. Yes, that’s a very English thing indeed and all weekend long I’ve been seeing hot mulled wine offered everywhere at 3 pounds a glass–from Borough Market to Covent Garden, jaded shoppers are sipping these potent potations in a Dickensian tradition that lives on in the 21 st century. Oh, and also hot roasted chestnuts have been appearing on carts everywhere in keeping with the carol,
“Chestnuts roasting on an open fire,
Jack Frost nipping at your nose…”

Thanks to my resolution to attend Mass each Sunday in a different historic church in London, I resisted the temptation to go to the 9 am service at my parish church,St. Etheldreda’s, and instead kept myself busy till about 11 am. I had Breakfast in Bed–uuummmm!–hot toasted buttered croissants (I have developed such a love for Lurpak) and steaming coffee. Now that’s Sunday comfort food for you! I hammered out my November newsletter, then did my exercises and showered and at 11 .30 am, I was out of the house and in a bus and headed to Church. I decided to go to Berkeley (pronounced Barkley in this country, in the same way that Derby is Darby, I suppose) Square to attend the 12. 30 mass at Immaculate Conception Church.This is usually referred to as ‘Farm Church’ as it is on Farm Street in Mayfair and sits at one end of Mount Street Gardens (the same one in which KGB spies left secret notes for each other in the slats on the many benches that pepper the pathways).

As I said before, it was cold and it was soggy, so I was surprised to see how packed the church was. It’s Gothic interior is quite breathtaking with its high ceiling and tons of decorative details including Byzantine mosaics, innumerable carvings around the altar and pulpit, paintings on the walls). It turned out that the congregation was composed largely of ‘pilgrims’, devotees of the Jesuit martyr St. Edmund Campion. They’d been on the road since September, having started out at Oxford where Campion was a student at St. John’s College, and making their way to London where he was condemned to death by hanging for converting to Catholicism, joining the Jesuits and preaching secretly when his ministry began. His Feast Day is celebrated on December 1 (Chriselle’s Birthday) which is why the pilgrimage ended today in London where he was martyred.

Of course, I obtained all this information from the web only after I got home and decided to read up on him. While his name sounded familiar to me, I could not quite place him. I remember now that he is revered in Oxford and that might have been where I first heard his name. I also realize how dangerous it might have been to continue to profess allegiance to the Vatican in the reign of Queen Elizabeth I. Campion lived and preached and ministered to Catholics while in hiding and while being continually hounded. He was finally exposed by a spy, taken to the Tower where at his Trial, he presented a stirring defence of his faith, but was condemned to Death. He was hung, drawn and quartered in 1581 and was canonized a saint in 1980.

I was surprised to see that the congregation comprised multiple ethnicities. Of course, the majority were white English but I saw South Asians, East Asians and Blacks among the pilgrims. Fr. Hugh Duffy, S.J. said Mass and preached a sermon that was inspiring and particularly designed for his faithful congregation of pilgrims. I realized that he was a Scotsman when he referred, at one point, to St. Andrew, who, he said, was “the patron saint of the greatest country in the world”. This drew a hearty laugh from the congregation and I became aware, once again, of the healthy Anglo-Scots rivalry that continues to exist all over the British Isles. I sat for a few minutes, in the aftermath of the terrible terrorist attacks on Bombay, thinking that perhaps a reunification of Pakistan and India might be the solution to the continued bitterness that shrouds relations between these two countries. Perhaps if they are united politically, once again, the rivalry can continue, but on a more humorous level and without the threat of war or terrorism marring such a union. But perhaps that’s just wishful thinking on my part.

Back on the bus, I spoke to Llew and our Canadian guests who were at breakfast in Southport preparing for their long drive back to Toronto. I had intended to stay on the bus to Old Spitalfields Antiques Market but the weather strongly deterred me. Instead, I got off at my home stop and treated myself to a huge Italian lunch as I was starving by the time mass ended. I had mushroom soup for starters, garlic bread with cannelloni and salad (all courtesy of Sainsburys) and lemon tart for dessert. Then, replete with my large meal, I caught up on email correspondence and felt drowsy enough to take a short nap.

At 5 pm, I left my flat again, got on the bus and joined the throng of holiday shoppers at Oxford Street. At Marks and Spencer, I found some presents to take back home to India–prices are rapidly coming down and with the dollar so strong again, it is a great time to buy. Up in the lingerie section, I sought underwear but as I was getting ready to pay, the store made the announcement that it was closing in five minutes. That’s when I realised that they close at 6 pm on Sundays–even during the holiday season! Now that would never happen in the Land of Mamon, aka the United States. So I quickly paid for my purchases and was out and on the bus again, weighed down with gifts.

I spent a rather quiet evening with the telly, watching Far from the Madding Crowd with Julie Christie and Alan Bates. I realised in the first five minutes that I had seen this version before in Bombay, aeons ago, in the private British Council auditorium. Some scenes remained burned in my memory–the ones, in the beginning, with the sheep tumbling down the cliffs, another of the house on fire and Gabriel’s attempts to quell the flames. I ate another lovely dinner as I watched until I grew too sleepy and almost fell asleep on the couch.

It was the soggiest weekend in my memory but apart from the fact that today was rather unproductive, I really did use my time effectively and did not allow the rain to deter my plans ovet the past three days.

Hangin’ Around Indoors

Sunday, November 23, 2008
London

I awoke to the sight of snowflakes falling softly upon the sleeping city. Holborn remains undisturbed until well into mid-morning on weekends. As I stayed in bed with steaming cups of coffee and my PC, hammering away at pending email and writing, I realized that it was the perfect day to stay indoors and catch up with chores. For the next couple of hours, I cleaned my kitchen and bathroom, tidied the papers overflowing around my night stand, filed so many bits and pieces on my Anglo-Indian research and felt exceedingly pleased with my accomplishments in the domestic department.

As the day crept on, I finished creating the pages for my Greece trip on my website, then sat down and spent a couple of hours transcribing an interview with Dorothy Dady that I had completed several weeks ago. Somehow, the thought of not having to venture out into slush and freezing rain was very comforting to me. It would also do my feet and my legs good, I thought, to treat them to complete rest after the busy day I had trekking all over Cambridge yesterday. Of course, I did my exercises as I am trying to be extremely religious about those.

At lunch time, I sat down to a very proper British dish–fish pie–which was just what the doctor ordered on this wintry day. I also did a batch of laundry which left my place smelling nice and fresh as my washer-dryer is in my kitchen. Overall, I felt as pleased at Punch as I surveyed my sparkling flat and I realized that I do not miss Felcy at all as I can quite easily undertake my own cleaning, thank you very much.

In the evening, because I was mentally exhausted from transcribing the interview, I sat to watch The Diving Bell and the Butterfly, a film, that won Julian Schnabel the award for Best Director at the Cannes Film Festival last year. From the first frame to the last, I was deeply absorbed and, by the end of it, deeply moved as well. Schnabel has taken the true story of Jean-Dominique Bauby (known as Jean-Do), Director of Elle magazine in Paris, who had a massive stroke that left him paralyzed and afflicted with “locked-in syndrome”. This is a condition in which the patient is fully conscious and sees and hears everything but cannot speak, move or swallow. Through the patient working of a speech and physiotherapist, Jean-Do learns now to communicate by the use of his eye which he is able to blink. He uses this device to actually write a book, which he ‘dictates’ by way of his blinks to his stenographer. The book was published and in it he acknowledged the role played by all the women in his life who helped him, with love and care and concern during his therapy. He died ten days later.

The triumph of the movie lies not just in the extraordinary resilience and initiative of this writer who did not allow his physical condition to limit his mental capabilities but in Schnabel’s masterful film making–he uses a novel method in which the viewer becomes Jean-Do facing the various people who populate his life on a daily basis. In-between, we are afforded glimpses into his life prior to his stroke, his relationship with Celeste, the mother of his children (though not his wife as they never married), with his father and with his love, Inez. Also sensitively documented is his relationship with the personnel at the hospital who nursed him through the excruciating months of his stay with them in Berck-sur-Mer near Calais. The film is made in French (with English subtitles) and uses several of the real people who helped Jean-Do during his own life, in minor roles. I was so keen to see this film when it came to our Community Theater in Fairfield, Connecticut, but somehow had missed it. Seeing it through Love-Films meant that it did not have the same impact as seeing it in the cinema, but I was enraptured throughout.

The snow stopped just as soon as it started but it left the day feeling sombre and silent. I was glad I was able to curl up and enjoy it from within the comfort of my flat which, incredibly, despite the bitter chill outside, does not need any heating at all. Of course, I was very warm all summer long, but now I am grateful for the insulation that will probably keep me feeling as warm as toast all through the winter.

The Other Place–Calling on Cambridge

Saturday, November 22, 2008
Cambridge

For me, Cambridge is ‘The Other Place’, i.e. not Oxford. As my friend Annalisa says, “You can either be an Oxford Person or a Cambridge Person” and we are Oxford Persons! Still, having last been to Cambridge 22 years ago, on a brief day trip with some Oxford classmates, I warranted the town deserved another look. Besides, there was so little I remembered of it and, looking at the pictures I took then, I felt sorely tempted to revisit those parts of it upon which my youthful footsteps had once trod. So, when I discovered that National Express had a special funfare of just 3 pounds one way, I grabbed the opportunity and booked my ticket online.

It invariably happens that when I have to take a day trip some place, I do not sleep well the previous night–partly because I am terrified that I will oversleep and miss my bus (or ‘coach’ as they say here). So I tossed and turned all night, then fell asleep in the early hours and awoke, not at 6.30 am as I had intended but closer to seven. Tearing out of bed, I actually managed a shower (though not breakfast) and raced out of my building at 7.20 am–just five minutes behind schedule. I need not have worried. With everyone else curled up tightly in bed, the bus flew through the streets and dropped me off at Victoria Coach Station well in time for my coach.

I used the two hour journey to read up on the town and acquaint myself with its highlights so that I would use my day as productively as possible. Since I had a 7 pm return ticket, I would have about eight hours to spend in the town. While it was a bitterly cold day (it was 2 degrees–temperatures in Celsius always sound worse than the corresponding Fahrenheit figures), the sun shone bright and skies were clear and on the way into Cambridge, two things came to my mind: the nursery rhyme that goes “the sheep’s in the meadow, the cow’s in the corn (that’s Little Boy Blue, I believe) for I saw little woolly dots speckle the stubbled fields and then my thoughts turned to Keats and his Ode to Autumn in which two lines go:

While barred clouds bloom the soft-dying day,
And touch the stubble-plains with rosy hue…

Before long, we were pulling into Cambridge, the approach as nice as the town itself, lined with lovely Tudor cottages and stone churches. The coach parked by a large field and the driver pointed out to me the route I could take to get to the main shops. I consulted my map and decided to head first to the Fitzwilliam Museum which I hadn’t seen before. This made a lot of sense since it was a frigid day, I was grateful to escape indoors, and most colleges open to visitors only after 1 pm anyway…leaving me with a few hours to see the collection.

Treasures of the Fitzwilliam:
Using the campus of Downing College as a short-cut, I arrived at the Fitzwilliam and gasped. Seriously, nothing had prepared me for the majesty of the building. I felt as if I were in Greece all over again. It is an impressive Neo-Classical building, complete with carved frieze on the pediment and Corinthian columns and it spreads itself out expansively across three blocks. But the exterior is only the least of it. Mount the main stairs, cross the grand threshold of the main entrance and you drop dead in your tracks. The foyer is straight out of a Robert Adam’s mansion. It is opulent with stone statues, shell topped niches, gorgeous plasterwork and gilding, more molding than you imagine and marble everywhere. It reminded me very much of the Baroque interior of the Kunthistorisches Museum in Vienna and I simply couldn’t tear myself away to see the collection. So right off, if one has to make a comparison between Oxford’s Ashmolean Museum with which, of course, I am very familiar, I would, at the risk of sounding disloyal, say that Cambridge wins on the museum-front.

The Fitzwilliam might be small by international standards, but I realized by the time I saw the first gallery, that it is a stupendous collection and would take me much more than the 2-3 hours I allotted to see it. So, as usual, I decided to look at everything cursorily, but carefully only at its ‘highlights’. The receptionist tried to turn me towards the ‘special’ exhibits, but I decided to see Hobbema’s Wooded Landscape, Titian’s Tarquin and Lucretia, Reuben’s The Death of Hippolyta, Monet’s Springtime, Renoir’s La Place Clichy (delightful indeed), the finest collection of works by George Stubbs that I have seen anywhere, Will Lott’s Stour-side farm seen from a different angle in a painting by Constable (as opposed to the famous one of it in The Haywain at the National), several stunners by Tintoretto including The Adoration of the Shepherds and some Picassos. I also feated my eyes upon Ford Madox Brown’s circular painting The Last of England which Marina Versey considers one of a hundred Masterpieces of Art in her book of the same name. I also realized that by focusing on the paintings, I was completely ignoring the amazing collection of antiques in the form of furniture, urns, sculpture, carpets, etc. that adorned the rooms–but to see all those I’d have to spend days. Also, with my feet still weak, there is only so much I can do…so.

Apart from these Old Master paintings, the Fitzwilliam has a magnificent bookcase that supposedly belonged to Handel. These contain 20 large leather-bound volumes, his own original manuscripts. It was astounding! Asking around, I discovered that my favorite poem of all time, Keats’ Ode to a Nightingale was not in its normal position, but tucked away in a room that contained manuscripts that had been acquired by Sidney Cockerell, the museum’s most illustrious director. There it was, the piece of work that Keats’ reportedly scribbled in the garden of his home in Hampstead upon hearing a nightingale sing its throat out on a tree by the backdoor. I have to admit that I teared up on looking at it and thinking of his short, sad, wasted life cut down in the prime of its youth and productivity by tuberculosis and his anguish and desire for the lovely Fanny Brawne next door, whom he would never wed. I had the same reaction while gazing upon this sepia-ed scrap of paper that I had seen at Keats’ House in Hampstead, several years ago, when I had actually stood upon the spot where my beloved poem was composed.

Going in search of this treasure then brought me to another clutch of priceless works: a number of superbly illuminated medieval religious manuscripts–apart from the obvious Bibles and Psalters, there was Firdausi’s Shahnama in Persian (I gazed at it in awe), and a number of letters and poems from other famous poets–the Pre-Raphaelites, for instance, were very well represented though most of them were at Oxford (William Morris and Dante Gabriel Rossetii and Edward Burne-Jones) and a number of original first-editions from Morris’ reputed Kelmscott Press. And, then, of course, I was quite blown by the original manuscripts of Thomas Hardy’s Jude the Obscure–imagine, his own hand-written work, then the first page proofs, with Hardy’s notes in the margin and then the first edition of the book itself! How could I possibly leave these cases without drowning in emotion? Cockerell famously and justifiably declared, at the end of his tenure as Director, “I found it (the museum) a pigsty and turned it into a palace”. It was just too much for me and, naturally, I spent far more time than I had intended in this magnificent place.

I did have a look at the Special exhibit on “The Gold of the Golden Fleece”, an exhibit that displayed the gold jewelry and other artifacts that have been unearthed by the discovery of several graves on the shores of the Black Sea in modern-day Georgia, an area that Jason of the famous Greek epic, Jason and the Argonauts, is supposed to have reached in his quest for the Golden Fleece. Then, I was tired, very tired and hungry, and I found sustenance in the museum’s cafetaria over a lovely pot of golden Darjeeling that cheered me up no end and allowed me time for some people-watching and eavesdropping. A lady at the next table, apparently a Cambridge don, was complaining to her companion about a truant student who had stopped attending her seminar!

Exploring the Colleges:
The universities of Oxford and Cambridge are unique in that they are composed of a number of colleges, each of which boasts its own ‘campus’, most consisting of the following: a quadrangle or “Quad” around which the college is built–this, in turn, usually consists of a Chapel, a Dining ‘Hall’, the Master’s Lodge, narrow spiral stairways leading to the rooms occupied by the dons where tutorials are usually held (small very intimate intellectual exchanges between the professor and students) and students’ rooms. Beyond this main quad, lie a number of smaller quads or gardens, such as the Fellows Garden, the Junior and Senior Common Rooms with their gardens, etc. Depending on the time in history when these colleges were built (usually under royal patronage), their architecture differs. Each one is a gem and visiting them is always a delight for me. Not only do I feel steeped in intellectualism which always stirs me, but being built around the medieval principles of the monastic life (most of the earliest scholars were, in fact, monks who were preparing to serve the church through a curriculum that focused on Latin and Theology), they fill me with a sentiment of deep religiosity.

At about 1 pm, my exploration of the colleges began as I walked along Trumpington Road, my feet having rested adequately. This brought me first to the small and very charming Peterhouse College whose most famous alumnus is the poet Thomas Gray (Elegy in a Country Churchyard). A few weeks ago, one of my Anglo-Indian interviewees, Randall Evans, had informed me that the church and graveyard of St. Giles in Stoke Poges which inspired the poem was not too far from Slough where he lived. The best part of my exploration of Peterhouse was getting to see the 13th century restored Hall where, because it was term time, lunch was still being served to a lone student who sat in the semi-darkness and munched. This Hall and the one belonging to Clare College are the only two I was able to visit and since it is a long time since I did see the inside of a medieval college hall with its medieval portraits painted on wood and inserted into pockets on the walls, High Table with its chairs all askew, and the marvelous timbered ceiling, I was taken back in time to my own meals at Exeter College Hall in Oxford where I had lingered over lunch in similar fashion. I also went out into the gardens to explore the extensive grounds that border the Fitzwilliam.

Across the street, I entered the quad of Pembroke College with its lovely landscaped gardens, Big Ben-like Tower and the adorable Christopher Wren Chapel where a rehearsal was on for a recital to be performed later that day. Wren’s uncle, Matthew Wren, Bishop of Ely, had spent 18 years locked up in the Tower of London, courtesy of Oliver Cromwell, and had vowed that when released, he would build a chapel in his college. And build it his nephew did. Against the red-brick walls of a section of the college, the Baroque Chapel makes a fine architectural contrast.

Following my map, I then walked down Silver Lane, to arrive at the fabulous red brick gateway to Queens’ College, founded by two medieval queens and named after them: Margaret of Anjou (wife of Henry VI) and Elizabeth of Woodville (wife of Edward IV) in 1448 and 1465 respectively. Their heads, carved in stone and painted, are found on one of the gateways that link the many quads of this lovely college which is most notably associated with the Dutch scholar and reformer Erasmus, who lived in a tower here from 1510 to 1514. This college in whose unusual cloistered quad, I rested for a long time, is remarkable for the Tudor facade of the President’s (or Master’s) Lodge and the fact that you can walk across the River Cam on one of the oldest bridges built across it–Mathematical Bridge–that was originally constructed without any nuts or bolts. Naturally, I walked across it, and for a moment, thought I was back in Venice. I caught my first glimpse of the Cam then, of course, flowing serenely on this brilliant morning, with a few punts gliding by, their passengers, well wrapped in red blankets. On the opposing bank, autumn with its gilded foliage, allowed me to see a medieval corner of England bathed in its golden beauty as coppered leaves burnished the landscape.

Then, I was out on the King’s Parade following signs to the tourist office as I badly needed a better map. This took me past a fascinating clock embedded into the walls of Corpus Christi College which featured a colossal gold Pendulum, pushed along by a fierce-looking grasshopper. Entering that lane, I found myself in a warren of little streets and into Market Square where one of Cambridge’s famous Christmas Arts and Crafts markets was being held. I resisted the temptation to browse as I knew that the colleges were open for three hours only and I still wanted to see King’s and Trinity before the light faded following sunset.

King’s College, built by Henry VIII and full of memorials recalling his stormy reign, is famous for its Chapel, the one with the extraordinary facade, which when viewed across the River Cam, provides one of the most easily recognized scenes in the world. The college quad is larger than most, but it is towards the Chapel that most visitors are drawn. I decided to look at it from the outside only as I intended to attend Evensong at 5. 30 pm. when I would be able to see the famed interior. So I strolled towards The Backs–that manicured strip of grass so-called because the backs of the colleges can be viewed from this perspective, to the banks of the Cam where, while I would have loved to have been punted along, I would have chosen a warmer day for such a special excursion.

I hastened out of Kings’, past the impressive carved stone entrance to the Old Examination Hall and the back of Gonville and Caius (pronounced ‘keys’) College and eventually, I was at the entrance of Trinity College with the cheeky sculpture of Henry VIII adorning its main portal–cheeky because some former students took off the sword that he carried in his right hand and replaced it with the leg of a table which has, inexplicably, stayed there ever since! Once past the entrance, one can’t help but gasp because the Quad, a whole two acres of it, is so gigantic and so crammed with interest that you know not where to look. I hurried across it, to the next quad hoping to enter the Wren Library which contains the original manuscript of A.A. Milne’s Winnie The Pooh. Alas, the Wren Library is not open on weekends. I had to content myself with a picture of the front facade with its sculpture-crowned roof, and return to King’s Parade.

I had not yet seen the Bridge of Sighs and with the light fading quickly, I wanted to catch a glimpse of it before it was too late. I hurried off to St. John’s College and was enchanted by the mass of Tudor and Jacobean architecture that separates its various quads, each characterized by a towering red brick gatehouse. The clearly-marked ‘Tourist Route’ took me to the Chapel where another rehearsal was in progress, and then I was hurrying along to Kitchen Bridge which offers the best views of the Bridge of Sighs. I did shoot a few last pictures at the very same spot where I had posed 22 years ago and, of course, I was filled with nostalgia. By this point, my feet were sore again and I badly needed to rest and get out of the cold for a bit. A student directed me to a low modern building where I used a rest room and rested in a parlor and ate a few biscuits and then, to my delight, on leaving the College premises to make my way back to King’s College Chapel for Evensong, I actually walked over the Bridge of Sighs! It was so wonderful to be able to do that and to straddle the Cam over this lovely covered bridge that links two parts of the college together.

Evensong at King’s College Chapel:
Of course, though it wasn’t quite 5 pm yet, night had fallen and the festive lights were switched on all over Cambridge turning the town into a fairy land. Tracing my steps back to King’s College, I joined the line of visitors who were there early for the best seats. As always happens when I am in a queue, I got into conversation with the two ladies in front of me, visiting from Surrey and Australia respectively. They said they recognized me by the pompom on my hat from having taken my picture earlier near the Chapel!

Within ten minutes, on a night when the temperature went down to 2 degrees Celsius, we were inside the Chapel and, once again, I was struck speechless. There it was–the famous fan vaulting that Wren so admired. He is reputed to have said of King’s College Chapel that he could have built it if someone had told him where to place the first stone! The high ceiling towers above the narrow nave. To approach the main altar, you pass through the wooden carved choir screen that was donated by Henry VIII to the chapel. This church was built by his grandfather Henry VI but was embellished by his father Henry VII and himself when he was still the Pope’s Defender of the Faith and it remained a Catholic church until the Dissolution and its conversion to an Anglican chapel.

The chapel was lit only by candle light and its soft flickering glow gilded the stone walls. Inside, I was amazed to notice that each carved altar seat bore the signature of Henry VIII–HR–for Henry Rex, or in Latin, Henry the King. The altarpiece is famed for the painting The Adoration of the Magi by Peter Paul Reubens and I resolved to examine it closer at the end of the service.

I found a seat on a back bench, then had to pinch myself to believe that I was actually here in King’s College, Cambridge, listening to its internationally-renowned choir sing a service in the great chapel itself. When he built the chapel, Henry VI stipulated that a choir consisting of 6 lay clerks and 16 boy choristers–educated at the college school–should sing daily at service. This custom continues at term time. Hence, I was lucky enough to catch one such service. Seating was done in an extremely orderly fashion and it was very easy to follow the service with the books placed at each pew. Then, the clergy and the choir streamed in and took their places and worship began through word and music and in that candle-bathed ambiance, there is only one word by which to describe it–magical! This is the same choir that sells tickets to its shows all over the world, that presents TV performances that everyone in England has seen, and here I was listening to them in an atmosphere that was transforming and intensely prayerful.

One of the things that struck, about the service were the two Readings from Scripture. I have never in my life heard anything read like this. The Lectors weren’t reading, they were dramatizing. I thought they were on stage and I in an audience listening to an Elocution performance. Word by word, they presented the Scripture with such high drama and much modulation of voice and tone. As a Lector in my own parish church in the States, I have to say that this was over-the-top and certainly not something to which I am accustomed. But then perhaps the high dramatic space within which the Word was being read accounted for this elaborate manner of presentation.

At any rate, I was absolutely thrilled that I was able to crown what had been an extraordinary day with this extraordinary service and when it was over, and I filed out of the church (having taken a closer look at the altarpiece), I wished I could linger longer amidst the enchanted Christmassy world of Cambridge. There was one more thing I’d have liked to see: Magdalen (pronounced ‘maudlin’) College whose library contains the collection of 18th century diaries penned by Samuel Pepys, of whom I happen to be a latter-day disciple; but lack of time didn’t allow for that. Besides, there is always one thing they say you should leave unfinished, to ensure that you will return.

So instead I paid a visit to the loo at the deluxe University Arms Hotel before crossing the Green and boarding the coach at 7 pm. that took me back to London. I hopped off at Stratford from where I decided to take Bus 25 home to Holborn, but had to wait for almost half an hour before a bus condescended to show up and then it took me 40 minutes on the bus. I had no idea how far away Stratford was from Central London, but this bus pass is allowing me to see and learn about parts of London into which I would never have ventured.

Despite a supremely busy day, surprisingly, I did not feel physically tired though my feet were very sore indeed. A good soak and a massage and a few exercises and a bit of Moov applied to them and, on a wing and a prayer, I got into bed, looking for an early night but chatting with Llew for a bit before I finally hit the sack.

The Other Place was a revelation and I realize that as I see places with the more mature eyes of my advanced years, I am appreciating and enjoying them far more than I ever did during my gawky youthful ones.

Goodbye Llew…and a Treat at Carluccio’s

November 16, 2008
London

Hard to believe that Llew’s two-week vacation has come to an end. But neither one of us is complaining. We had a fabulous time together and made the most of every minute. Greece was splendid and our days in London were packed with wonderful activity. Llew left for the States this afternoon taking with him many happy memories of our autumn break together…and, not surprisingly, in the midst of our parting, he left his scarf behind in my closet–a small reminder of his presence, therefore, still lingers in my space.

We started our day with the 9 am mass at St. Etheldreda’s Parish at Ely Place where, after the service, we visited with our next-door neighbor Barbara Cookson. Llew packed his suitcases over coffee and within a hour, we set out to see the Elgin Marbles at the British Museum since Llew wanted to examine them again after having visited the Parthenon in Athens. Maybe because I was so sorry to see him go away, my mind refused to work and we ended up walking to Fleet Street to catch a bus to Trafalgar Square and the National Gallery and it was literally when I was on the steps of the National that it occurred to me that we were in the wrong place. We ought to have been in the British Museum to which we could have walked from my Holborn flat. Talk about the mind shutting down!!! Mine seems to be doing this much too often these days. Or maybe it’s just the fact that London has too many museums!!!

So, we walked to the British Museum in a very fine mist–not a drizzle, not a spritz–the teasing sort of spray that reminds you that it is raining! Within ten minutes, we were inside, looking at the sculpture that was taken away by Lord Elgin from the exterior of the Parthenon and brought to England. Somehow, neither one of us was impressed. In fact, we were left colder than the marble from which they were sculpted and I did turn to Llew and say, “Doesn’t have much of an impact, does it?” He seemed to agree for he really didn’t have a major reaction to the sculpture at all. I guess we’d have preferred by far to have seen the work on the walls of the Parthenon themselves. I did want to take a look at the Karyatid that is supposed to be in the British Museum. This is one of the six female sculptures that is on the Erechtheion, another building on the Acropolis. But it was nowhere in sight and Llew was running late and didn’t want to linger–so I decided to seek it out on another occasion. Walking home quickly, we stopped at Sainsburys for a few groceries, before we ate a hasty Indian meal (Chicken Do Piaza, Bombay Aloo and Mushroom Pilaf–our last meal together for a while) and he left at 1 pm in time to make his 4.30 pm flight from Heathrow. He did not even have the time to eat dessert. Instead, he carried Sokolatina (a chocolate mouse pastry from Athens) with him and said he would eat it at leisure later–perhaps while waiting at Heathrow to board his flight!

I had barely turned away from the window from where I had waved goodbye to him, when my next-door neighbor Tim Freeman rang my doorbell to invite me to join him and his wife Barbara for lunch at Carluccio’s, the chain of Italian restaurants that is very highly reputed in London. I told him that I had just eaten lunch but would be happy to join them for coffee and dessert. I was so grateful to get away for a bit as I am sure I would have spent a dismal afternoon without Llew.

Instead of which I had such a great time in the superb company of these folks and made the acquaintance of Barbara’s niece, Hannah, who was visiting them for the afternoon. Hannah is in the process of buying her first flat near Milton Keynes. She is a lovely bubbly young lady, very smart and supremely poised. A marketing specialist, she works for a company that supplies maintenance personnel to large corporate firms–a company that employs over 20,000 people all over the UK. Spending the afternoon with them really took my mind off Llew’s departure and I was able to return home in very good spirits indeed. How very kind and thoughtful of them to have included me in their lunch plans! I feel so deeply grateful.

As for the famous Carluccio’s, it truly lived up to its reputation. Tim very cleverly ordered the sort of large appetizer platters that allow for casual ‘grazing’. Though I had no real intentions of eating, I found myself drawn towards the salami and the grilled peppers smeared with pesto, the bruschetta and the prawns and the most delicious caponata I have ever eaten. I was even more thrilled to discover that one can purchase portions of it to take home. Except for the fact that my fridge is full of food, I’d have taken home a tub; but it is a treat I will postpone for another day–besides, it is so great to know that Carluccio’s is so close to our place that I can nip in there at any time and get myself a tubful!

The best part of our meal, however, was dessert. The three of them ordered the Lemon Tarts (and I can see why because the piece Tim passed me so I could taste a bit was just fantastic). I went for a Sponge Cake soaked in rum, studded with toasted almonds and chocolate shavings. Tim also ordered two glasses of Limoncello, one for him and one for me and boy did that go down smoothly! It took me right back to Naples and Capri where my friend Amy Tobin and I had sampled this sunniest of liqueurs and truly enjoyed it–unbelievably only this past March. Somehow with all the travel I have done this year, Italy already seems years away.

So I guess I will return to routine now as I catch up on my travel writing, my grading of student essays and the transcribing of my interviews. With Llew having returned to Southport, my own holiday has come to a close and it is back to the salt mines for me, come tomorrow!

A Word About Poppies

November 11, 2008
Athens-London

At the stupendous, breathtaking Olympic Stadium in Athens, as so often happens on vacation, a young man came up and requested us to take his picture against the five world rings that dominate the spectator stands. He happened to be Bolivian, on holiday in Athens from Paris where he is posted for a year on work–talk about globalization! There I was in Athens, originally from India, now based in the USA, on holiday in Athens from London where I am posted for a year on work. The similarities were striking!

He told us he was out and about on a long weekend in France where the nation is celebrating Armistice Day–November 11, 1918 was when the First World War ended. And I am reminded of the ceremonies in London that I have seen year after year on TV during the BBC World News in commemoration of Remembrance Day (as it is in known in the UK). For years I wondered why the BBC reporters and its guests wore a brilliant red favor in their lapels for a couple of weeks in November. Then, at the Cenotaph, a monument in London that I have yet to seek out and find, Tony Blair would lay a red poppy wreath as war veterans hobbled forward or were wheeled in their chairs to the front, all decked out in their military regalia. We have no such ceremonies in the States to mark this date–probably because we were not involved in the intrigues of World War I.

However, a few years ago, when my mother Edith was visiting the USA, I had taken her to the traditional parade to mark Memorial Day (last weekend in May). There, on the cheering streets of our local home town, Southport, Connecticut, she watched fascinated as people waved the star-spangled banner and floats laden with vivid red poppies passed by to the enthusiastic waves of elderly men and women whose clothing was covered with poppies fashioned out of red construction paper. My mother was enthralled, indeed almost teary-eyed, as she watched. “Look at all those poppies”, she said. “That takes me back to my childhood. When we were children in school, we celebrated the end of the War with these poppies that were sold as favors in Bombay. In fact, we used to make these poppies ourselves, out of red crepe paper! Everyone bought a poppy and wore them in their lapels. I haven’t seen anything like this in so many years”, she marvelled.

So it was in my mother’s honor that I bought a poppy, two weeks ago, while I was with Dorothy Dady in Richmond. It was with pride that I wore it in my lapel for a couple of days before Llew arrived and we left for our Greek Odyssey. Karen, my colleague at NYU, saw me walk into our office with the poppy on my coat pocket and asked me, “What’s with this thing? I see so many people wearing it here.” I explained the significance of the Poppy Appeal about which I had heard on BBC TV only two days previously. Every single BBC reporter and guest had worn the poppy and I was so delighted to be a part of this tradition during my year in London.

So many thoughts coalesced as we crossed Western Europe last night–albeit at thirty thousand feet above sea level–en route to the UK. It was Armistice Day in Europe–Poppy Day in London–and my mother Edith, in whose honor I purchased and wore a poppy, turns 77 tomorrow in Bombay. I cannot wait to call her and tell her about my small tribute to the many nameless brave and courageous men and women whose contribution to the War Effort continues to be recalled here in the UK on Remembrance Day. I was only sorry that I missed the ceremonies in London as I would dearly have loved to be a part of the rituals of the day in person on English soil.

Cruising Upon the Ink-Blue Aegean Sea

Thursday, November 6, 2008
On the Ink-Blue Aegean Seas

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Blue Star Ferries Superferry II was our mode of transport from Pireasus Port in Athens to Mykonnos. As we rolled our pull-along bags on the streets of Syntagma Square at dawn, long before any other signs of life became visible, I was so excited. Here we were at last–setting sail upon the ink-blue Aegean Seas as Ulysses had done so poetically in the stories of Homer and as Jason had done with his faithful Argonauts–we were launching upon a journey, as Tennyson put it, “not unbecoming men who strove with Gods”.

Pireaus Port, by contrast, did show signs of life. Lots of them. Men ran back and forth between giant ‘ferries’ that lay brightly-lit in the gently rocking waters. Travelers pulling suitcases, ran bewildered, trying to find the right boarding ramp for their destinations. Llew and I joined the few dawn-risers and found our boat, stashed our cases in the luggage hold, then stepped out on the deck to enjoy the launch-off and to bid a temporary goodbye to Athens.

For the most part, our cruise was uneventful. There was only a small smattering of passengers on a ferry that seemed huge by comparison. Deck after deck was absolutely empty. A few TV sets played programs in a desultory fashion–it was, of course, all Greek to us! We looked desperately for English coverage of the historic US elections but we got only a few snatches of Obama’s acceptance speech. But because all we heard on Greek TV was “Obama, Obama, Obama”, we got the general gist of the jubilation that surrounded the nation. I sat reading. Chriselle’s recommendation The Memory Keeper’s Daughter by Kim Edwards served me well on the long sail for soon the novelty of watching the harbor fade in the distance failed and we needed to sink down and find useful occupation until we arrived in Mykonnos.

The ferry stopped at Siros, en route, allowing us to enjoy the harbor-side views of a bustling port and the pastel shades of the low buildings of the island. Two structures towered above the rest–a campanile (bell-towers) of sorts and the distant steeples and dome of a church (which we discovered to be the Church of St. Nicholas on our return visit to Siros). Then, we were sailing again, passing only occasionally a group of islands or one massive one, some adorned with snow-white light houses, others barren, rising majestically from the waters in apparent volcanic crags. It was all beautiful and very haunting but nothing had prepared me for the vivid blue of the waters–none of the Homeric adventures, as far as I can remember, had ever mentioned the startling ink-blue seas and I was repeatedly struck by the color. We took our rest on this quiet day, enjoying each other company when we were not snoozing off as the ferry rocked gently.

When the next island arrived, at least an hour ahead of schedule, we disembarked, delighted to have come upon Mykonnos. On land again, we looked out eagerly for Stelios, the man in whose pension I had made online arrangements to stay. There was no sign of him as most other passengers found their onward means of transport. I whipped out my phone to inform Stelios that we had arrived earlier than expected. At this point, a Greek woman came up to me and said, “Tinos, Mykonnos?” I responded, “Yes, Mykonnos”. She looked dismayed. “This Tinos, no Myko…”. Llew and I did not even wait for her to complete the last syllable. We were racing back to the passenger embarkation ramp which even as we looked at it had been raised. Luckily, the larger ramp, the one that boards vehicles on the ferry was still in place, and we rushed on to it. Both of us were thinking of a similar escapade we had at the port of Tangiers in Morocco, a few years ago, when we actually had our feet on the ramp for our return sail to Gibraltar, but were not allowed to board as we hadn’t gone through ticketing formalities. This time, board we did, and as the conductor checked our tickets, we heaved a huge sigh of relief, together with our suitcases, and made our way back to the window seats for the last leg of our journey. So, while we may not have encountered any Cyclops or gone in search of the Golden Fleece, boy, did we have our own hair-raising adventure!

Less than an hour later, we alighted on Mykonnos, an island whose structures gleamed in the bright afternoon sunshine. Stelios was there, as promised, holding up a placard with the words Pension Stelios on it. Five minutes later, literally, we were gazing out at the waters from the balcony of our double room, watching the ferry’s chimneys puff smoke into the clean, unpolluted air. The town seemed to be in deep slumber, however, for there was not a sight of any one stirring. We realized later that Greeks take a long siesta in the afternoon, when life comes to a full-stop, only to start again at 5 pm.

We decided to follow suit and had a lovely long and leisurely nap before we stirred out again at 4pm and walked along the five minute stretch of sand on the beach that took us directly to the Chora (pronounced “hora”), the village of narrow streets whose brightly-painted balconies seem to reach out to kiss each other over black and white streets composed of large black flagstones bonded together with pure white mortar. All shops were still firmly shut, though a lone souvlaki stand offered delicious sustenance in the form of those roasted kebabs served in pita bread with slatherings of tzaziki–the cucumber yoghurt. We found an internet cafe and were able, finally to catch up with The New York Times online and become a part of the election euphoria which, unfortunately, we had completely missed in Greece having severely lacked English TV coverage.

An hour later, when we emerged from the cafe where we also took a coffee break, the entire village had been transformed. A cruise ship had arrived in the harbor bringing with it hordes of Japanese tourists with heavy wallets who walked briskly through the tangle of tiny streets in search of Mykonnos’ pricey treasures. Lights had been switched on in the stores and artificial light flooded the streets to take the place of the day’s bright sunshine for night had fallen suddenly over the island. Just a little earlier, we had run into Vince Libasci, my NYU student who was also in Mykonnos for a week of “uninterrupted chilling” and we hung out with him for the next couple of days.

Mykonnos was just lovely and I found myself connecting immediately with this fabled island whose visitors return year after year for its combination of sun, sea, salt air and sand. We were glad we had made plans to visit the sacred island of Delos, the next day, and hoped very much that the local boat would ply to carry us to the Birthplace of Apollo.